Thursday, December 6, 2018

Lauren Daigle, Carrie Underwood, and Christianity

So, there's a lot of talk about Lauren Daigle and her response on some media show to their question about homosexuality. She didn't give the most biblical answer... and it reminded me of when Carrie Underwood didn't give the most biblical answer on this either... but I still fully stand behind both of them as beautiful Christian lights in a dark world. 

You probably have already developed your opinion on this, but I thought I'd share another perspective to think about.... 

These ladies may know the Bible truth about homosexuality, but are unsure of how to approach it in a public setting without offending people who could be reached with the Gospel... I certainly don't agree with their responses, but I also want to give them grace for their response. I don't like how so many people from the church are criticizing them so harshly. 

Christians need to support our people, not necessarily their answers. Erik and I were talking about how we might answer that question in a public setting - hopefully, we'd be bold enough to say, that isn't a core tenet of my belief system, but I do have an opinion on it. You are welcome to go to the Bible and form an answer for yourself... or something like that. 

I also saw something about how Ellen chatted with Lauren Daigle (before the comment), and she gave her really good advice about being in the public eye - basically, keep going and persevere because you have the potential to have longevity in the music industry - and that was the day Lauren sang an overtly Christian song on Ellen's show. It's embarrassing that the church is the one that Lauren has to persevere through right now. :-( 

All that to say, I was super bummed when Carrie commented on this a few years ago with another answer I disagree with, but I still think Carrie is a rock-solid example of a Christian in an industry that needs people to shine a light for Jesus. Lauren is just getting into that industry, and hopefully she can have thick skin through this. She is doing the best she can, most likely, in how to represent Jesus in the secular industry... and I don't think she ever expected to be in that secular industry! I think it was a surprise that her music crossed over, so she's probably still figuring all this out. 

I still am black and white about homosexuality. I just realize that people have to be so careful about the words they speak nowadays, maybe because I am in the writing industry and have to over-analyze things. If Lauren had said homosexuality was a sin, she may have been shunned from the secular arena and never been able to witness again... but she said she didn't know if it was a sin, and now the Christian community is condemning her. Rough spot. I understand standing up for the Bible, but what about spreading Jesus' name to those who need it. **insert advertisement here for Andy Stanley's book, Irresistible! I am not sure I agree with everything in it, but there is SO much good stuff about what our focus as Christians should be: our Savior and His resurrection and making that relatable for people who don't know Him!**

Lauren Daigle --and other Christians like Carrie Underwood-- need our support, not necessarily for their doctrinal answers, but for their platform in a world that needs Jesus. 

Saturday, April 14, 2018

God works during snowstorms and canceled church services!

So a twice-in-a-lifetime event happened today. Church was canceled. My church has only been canceled once... maybe a few more?... in its 30+ years of existence. So to have it canceled for blizzard conditions on April 14 is just weird. Everyone in our state is so over the snow! It's kinda funny.

Ironically enough, right as soon as I found out about service being canceled, my husband says he's going out in the snow to run an errand!! Really? I wasn't super happy about it, but I know he is a good safe winter driver and he has a truck, which helps a lot!

Since I had planned to be online for 5 p.m. service as a church host (check us out sometime - during our weekend services!!), my night opened up. I randomly decided if it was going to be a blizzard we should get pizza and if Erik was going out for an errand, he could pick it up. Oddly enough, I wasn't super in the mood for pizza and I know it's not the healthiest and I was okay making dinner, so I was ready to make the "right" decision and change plans. However, I stuck with my gut and figured we should just do it.

So Erik ran his errand and then went to get pizza at Papa Murphys. While there, he finds out that one of their employees is stuck in the snow. He happens to drive by the stuck car on his way out, and so he decides to help. He directs/helps the employees who were trying to get the car unstuck so they knew where to shovel. Eventually, the car got unstuck. He volunteered to follow the girl driving out of the parking lot in case she got stuck again and she did. He helped again. As they chatted after that, Erik asked if she lived close and if someone could just come get her so she wouldn't get stuck on the way home and she said her dad could. She then started to cry, overwhelmed and grateful and wondering why Erik helped her and Erik said, You know, if this happened to my daughter, I would want someone to help her as well. He helped her get her car safely into a parking spot until her dad came.

Oh and the people in Papa Murphys wanted to make sure Erik got a little something for helping and they gave him a free pizza coupon and free cookie dough. Bonus!

Anyway, shout out to my hubby for helping... and shout out to God for being the kind of God who orchestrates a string of events to help someone in need. Very grateful. He is a good God. ... and He brought me an amazing, kind, helpful husband who cares about people.

Thursday, August 24, 2017

Life hack

so I am one of those people who is horrible about drinking water. I'm always trying different tips, water bottles, etc to see which helps me drink the most!

My hack for today involves filling up the water bottle... yes I am impatient and don't want to wait until it is full. Recently I have tried the leave the sink running while I do something else method but that just goes in the make-a-mess method 😳

My new tip I am trying is to say a Bible verse or a prayer while I wait for it to fill up! Here's to taking an extra moment to get the water in me and the Scripture in my heart!

Sunday, August 20, 2017

parenting hack for bedtime routine

I love books. Always been that way and always will be that way...

... but even if that weren't the case, I think I would still follow my next thought...

Read chapter books to your children as they fall asleep. For me, this is different from bedtime stories. We read bedtime stories together out in the hallway, then we pray and read Scripture or a Bible story. Then they go to bed and lay in their dark room and I read them part of a chapter book from the hallway.

My mom did this for me when I was younger and I want my kids to have the same type of memories. Plus, I think it really helps them settle down when they are listening to a book with the light off. It gives them a chance to focus their thoughts in one area and calm down from the day they've had. In fact, one night a few weeks ago, we didn't read books for some reason, and Brayden had the toughest time going to sleep... he's always taken a bit longer to go to sleep, but we haven't had those problems as much (at least that I can remember) since having books to listen to while lying in bed.

We just did this with Nate the Great books, just finished Charlotte's Web, and are currently going through Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle books. Those, in particular, have provided a nice incentive for the boys to go to sleep.

Find a series or grab some classic books and read them to your kids!

Friday, August 18, 2017

parenting hack for kids' confidence

On June 5, 2017, our family expanded from four to five. That means it's me, my hubby, my two little boys (5/3) and a new baby girl. The boys love her.

I'm learning to let go of any perfection ideas I have and let the boys enjoy her too. For me, that means letting them dress her, and yes, even when it's mismatched, I let them have their way (unless we're going out and it's a really bad clash!).

Recently, I asked Brayden to get socks and he claims he couldn't find any, so he got these instead. "These" were tights. Yes, it is summer here, but we were inside and he had done a good job doing what I asked, so yep, she wore tights around the house that day! I did explain that in public she'd need a skirt or something over them since they go under that type of thing, but that doesn't matter when the boys help.

So the hack for today... whenever you can, let the kids decide things, even if it goes against "adult" protocol. :-)

Brie with her tights... and she was tired!

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

dinner hack

A quick way to make dinner is enchiladas. Now, I don't think I've ever bought enchilada sauce, but this recipe has made them my favorite. Here's the hack: use salsa instead! It works great. This is where I got the hack from:

Recently, I had hamburger on hand, so I used that instead of chicken for this recipe. You also don't need the green chiles, but they are nice to have. I do add more salsa depending on what I'd like the end result to be.

Oh yeah... and this dinner with hamburger took me 30-35 minutes. I always consider that an accomplishment when it comes together quickly!

Monday, August 14, 2017

parenting hack for picking up the house

It's very difficult to get kids to simply "clean up this room!"

On the other hand, I've found that giving the kids specific instructions is extremely helpful! Instead of simply saying clean up, give them specific jobs. Pick up that airplane and put it in the toy box. Run these dishes up to the kitchen and put them on the counter next to the sink. Put these shoes away. Bring these toys to your bedroom.

That helps them so much. My kiddos are 3 and 5 and always look rather lost when I say "clean up!" Giving them a place to start helps!